Aggression

That's right..We all have it..And i do want to talk about it..It has a very strong influence on my life..it does a lot of things to me, and to you too..the profound influence that anger and aggression have cannot be stressed too much..Let me tell you an interesting story..Happened to me about a week ago..I want to tell you all this because it does help in explaining a lot of things..to begin with, this scene is set in my homeland, yes, Gods own country as it is refered to but not rightly though, Kerala..Was on my way to attend a wedding ceremony at my cousins place..Flagged down an auto, the great but so uncomfortable brick on wheels..The only reason i had to do it was coz mommy dear was coming along..Anyway the trip was uneventful, reached the destination..The interesting part is i was wearing a traditional Mundu, its a kerala speciality, and we youngsters(If i can still call myself that) wear it only for special occasion..What am getting to is obviously i was feeling extremely uncomfortable in it..A shirt that did not have a pocket meant that there was no way i could accommodate a purse and a mobile phone, which are like appendages now..So i was carrying some change in my hand..Reached the house, got off, mom walked off and i made the mistake of not looking at the meter properly..This small act became such a botheration..I gave him 7 ruppees less, and man he just errupted!!i dint know what he was mouthing but it was bad..I told him to chill and that it was a genuine mistake, but no, he started with accusing me of all sorts of things..

You may wonder what i would have done, and most probably it would have been a tight punch on his face because he was really at it!But you know what?My entire family, from my mom to her sisters, cousins and granny were spectators..Hmmmm..So thats that!!clenched my teeth, made a really tight fist and gave the coldest stare i could create..Thats all..So my point is, why did he have to react to the situation in that manner, and what made me control myself?Think it over..Moving on..Every man is capable of bring down the house, and every woman is capable of stopping the earth from moving with thier expressions of anger..It all has so much effect on us but we rarely realize it..Am not preaching,Hell no!!get angry, let it out, beat the crap out of someone, and get beaten!!its all good..

Anger management is a hoot!Its just a way of making money, just like a spa, who says you get destressed in these places, a beach is more relaxing to be frank..But agression has a different meaning too, it means being bold, moving ahead without any stops, taking things head on..We all have this quality too, but sometimes, some people just lack it on an epic scale..Everything moves and they move with it..Everything is awe inspiring but they are plain boring..Are we familiar with this kind?again..Think it over..